Tuesday, August 20, 2019

DAILY SLICE OF LIFE - Finding your Personality




“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”

         This statement first recorded by Aristotle, one of the greatest of the ancient Greek philosophers, in the 4th century BC, has stood the test of time, and is as relevant today as it was thousands of years ago.
You can only begin to know yourself after you have begun to understand your own personality. Without this knowledge, you can never ever succeed to fully be the person you should be.
        
Personality is often characterized as the internal philosophy of the person. It essentially determines who he is, and how he sees the world around him. it is made up from components of all the thoughts, beliefs, ideas and passions that he experienced along his road of life, and is reflected in everything he chooses to think and do throughout his life. Although there have been a multitude of descriptions offered, they all refer to a pattern of relatively permanent characteristics and traits which provides and ensures the uniqueness, predictability, and consistency in the person’s behavior.

The ancient Greek and Roman philosophers were convinced that all the personality types can be included under one of four distinct and easily recognizable categories which were directly traceable to the four main bodily functions they called Humors. Led by the great Greek philosopher, Hippocrates, they believed each type of personality was developed from the humor that was dominant at birth, and that the individual’s subsequent appearance and behavior reflected this pattern throughout his life. He categorized them into:
Yellow Bile, (Choleric) the dominant, confident, energetic and
                  passionate individual, quite often extroverted.
Black Bile, (Melancholic), the thoughtful, brooding and sensitive
                introvert who is usually idealistic and a perfectionist and
                often angry and suspicious.
  Phlegm, (Phlegmatic), the relaxed, calm and controlled, consistent,
               stable and loyal person who was trusted, friendly, and
                 usually peace-loving.
    Blood, (Sanguine), the generally lively, optimistic, creative, and
                 carefree person, often adventurous and willing to take
                 chances.
Although this classification is no longer acceptable with current psychologists, the basic grouping and the descriptions for each remain unchanged and readily identifiable.

         A variety of tests and questionnaires have been devised to identify and predict the individual’s make-up and behavior, but all of these are only as useful as the individual’s own assessment. He must begin by recognizing his personal values, the ideas that shape all his decisions. These form the framework of his thinking and his actions and without them he is at the mercy of circumstances. He must also be conversant with his inner passions, which provided the focus for all his actions. In addition he must also be willing to honestly review and acknowledge his strengths and weaknesses and concentrate on the former to ensure success. Equally, he must be aware of the response of others and be willing to compare them with your own, if only to assess whether he is truly achieving his desired goals. These are the hallmarks by which a person is able find his true self, and to be the best he can possibly be.

The ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tsu very correctly explained the fundamental purpose of understanding oneself when he wrote:

“Knowing is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”


-Without question, no one can ever hope to achieve any level of recognition or success without first fully understanding and mastering his own personality.


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